2026, Don't Be Shitty.

Last year, not a lot happened, but I’m grateful for the little that did. I attended events and conferences that helped me connect with more people and in the most unexpected way, one connection led me to my first-ever remote job with a lawyer.

So this year, here’s a list of things I intend on doing, things I want to acquire, and experiences I want to have.

• First things first, I want to love myself more than anything or anyone. I've seen shege in my hands. So this year I'm choosing and loving myself like crazy.

• I want to finally go to uni. For years, I haven’t been able to, due to whatever the fuck the universe has been on to. But this year, I’m going.

• I want to fix-or rather, build-a relationship with God. I definitely need God in my life.

• I want to get myself a new phone. I can’t afford anything overly expensive, but I must sha get a new phone. One with better storage and better camera quality. This, I must.

• And when I get this new phone, there will be signssssss. I’ll take mad pictures—left, right, center, everywhere. I’ll create content and document my life.

• I want to invest in my skin. My skin has contributed greatly to my frustration and low self-esteem for a long time, so this year, my skin must be cared for. My skin must care.

• I want to try out new hairstyles—hairstyles I'm unfamiliar with. Hairstyles that changes how people see me and how I see myself.

• I want to write more this year. I really hope I do. I have lots of ideas but no execution. 😔

• Last year, I read a total of 42 books. I want to read even more this year.

• I want to get physical book copies. I’m an ebook warrior because I’m usually too broke for physical books, but this year I want to try to get—maybe one, two, or even three.

• I want to start my business brand this yearrrrrrr. I'm both excited and scared. God, please help me.

• I want to preach. Last year, i had a moment where I was ready to speak about a verse that meant so much to me, but I was too afraid. I chickened out. This year, I want to be audacious.

• I want to learn a skill- videography, photography, baking, bead-making… a whole lot. I want to create with my hands.

• I want to make money brooo. Do I need to even explain this? I need more sources of income. I want to count cash aggressively

• I want to be kinder- to myself, to those around and even far from me. I want to be kind.

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So many things I still want to be and do but I can't recall most right now. Anywaysss, i don't know what this year holds, I just hope to have more ups than downs.

Speaking of ups and downs, I'm having a major down this month (somebody check up on me 🤧). The lawyer I worked with remotely, just laid me off. He quit his job at his law firm (a shitty place), and my services were no longer needed.

I planned to tick off this list with that income, but life has other plans, I guess. Still, i remain very hopeful. You should too.

That's all, byeeeeeeeee. 😚

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I find writing on here very arduous. Typing on this glitchy app and phone is hard work. 😔